F-male

A growing number of women these days are rejecting femininity in favour of aping men. They talk, walk, dress, emote and act like men. There’s only one problem; they’re not men so it looks kind of stupid.

Plus, men are not impressed or threatened by women who behave this way. A more accurate word might be ‘embarrassed’.

F’male women are women who think they’re men. The presence of breasts and monthly periods doesn’t seem to be reminder enough that they’re certainly not men. And we’re not talking lesbians, sportswomen or female body builders here. We’re talking about mainstream women who have simply lost the plot entirely and embraced f’maledom. Real women don’t act and dress like men. Where would the profit be in such behavior?

Femdom involves consciously manipulating a man by using his desires in your favour; controlling him by your attire, manner, gait, voice, body language and femininity.

A dog barks and a cat meows. Nobody wants to hear a barking cat. If you’re a woman, stop barking and start acting like a woman.

Fashion 101

Start by ignoring trends, fads, fashions and friends.

Classical sexual attire is always a showstopper. Look at Coco Chanel, Audrey Hepburn, Jackie Kenney Onassis?

You may want to wear heavily patterned tights or no tights at all because Gok Wan told you to, but hey… he’s (kind of ) a guy and he’s super-gay.

If you want to know how to dress as a woman, listen to a woman.

Timeless style is highly alluring.

Elegance always impresses a man; captivating his attention and enslaving his desires instantly. Smooth, silken nylon and clean, simple heels will make him irresistably drawn to your legs. Marlene Dietrich built her entire career on this one fact, and was NEVER seen in public without her hosiery.

Showing a large amount of cleavage has become quite popular these days in the West. Is it sexy or is it simply vulgar? Remember: our aim is to entrance a man, not entertain him. Show him your wares prematurely and he’ll lose interest almost immediately. Have some guile.

You can show as much leg as you like if you’re wearing pantyhose. The message is clear: look but don’t touch. And they will look…

But be cautious about bare legs and feet. Gok may like it but take a real close look at your legs and feet in the mirror. Mottled skin and bulging veins may be appealing to a hulking, sweaty body builder but no self-respecting woman goes out in public with bare legs. The smooth fabric of shoes – especially shiny ones – make imperfect legs look even worse.

What is your statement here: feminine, elegant, otherworldly? Or coarse, rough, trashy and vulgar? You decide.

Sexual Retards

Most modern women are still in their sexual adolescence.
Having passed through pubescence with little or no sexual guidance, they consider themselves sexually competent.
How come?

The ability to open your legs, provide oral sex and/or a few extras hardly constitutes a wide range of sexual abilities.
Many women don’t even know how to dress sexually.

It’s time to hit the books.

There are a vast range of sexual skills that you can learn, from countless resources:

• literature (Karma Sutra, Venus in Furs, The Story of O, The Sexual Life of Catherine M, Anais Nin etc)
• DVD (Japan has an almost limitless range of femdom videos available)
• web

Let go of your pride.

Have a little humility. Recognise that you may not be the sexual tyrannosaurus you might imagine yourself to be.

How many Western women have tried face-sitting? In Malaysia it is practiced daily by most adult women as part of their typical sexual repertoire. The pitiful range of sexual practices observed in the West would make the average Western woman a laughing stock throughout Asia.

Laziness, complacency and a total lack of imagination has led to relentless divorces and defective relationships in the West.

Asian women stay married because they teach their men how to please them. The average Japanese, Malaysian or Chinese woman practices 80% or more of the femdom skills detailed on this blog. How many Western women could say the same? It’s no wonder their relationships are boring, unsatisfying and often doomed.

The average web surfer looking for excitement browses East, not West.

Cuckoldry

One practice sometimes associated with femdom is ‘cuckoldry’; cheating on your husband with another man and telling your husband about it or making him watch. This is not practiced in Malaysia. How come? We are too proud.

Marriage in Malaysia is taken very seriously. Chinese Malaysian weddings are a big event and so are Malaysian Muslim ceremonies. A failed marriage is considered to be a poor reflection on both man and wife; shameful.

What has this got to do with femdom?

Having found a man, got married and trained your husband to be obedient and compliant, no Malaysian woman would care to seek the arms of another man. We are immensely proud of our marriages and of our well-trained husbands. A good husband is akin to a pedigree dog. You parade him, make him perform for the amusement of your female friends, let them pet him. It all reflects positively upon the wife.

The idea of having to train another man is a drag. One is enough. A properly trained husband will do literally anything you want; even some things that dogs will not do…

Doggie

What Women Really want

Femdom is not for men. It was developed by women, for women. Not for men.

The sole purpose of femdom is to enhance female pleasure. Whether the man enjoys it or not depends upon whether or not he enjoys giving a woman pleasure – her way , not his.

What woman can deny the appeal of having an eager naked man at your beck and call, willing to serve , silent, obedient, virile?

This is sex for women. It starts when you want it to to. It lasts as long as you want it to last. And what takes place is entirely up to you…

We’re not talking sex dungeons, whips & chains, mistress/slave relationships. Come on, who’s that corny?

Femdom is about enjoying your sexuality in a healthy, adult, intelligent way. If you want to use your mind as well as your body, achieve long-term sexual satifaction and longevity, read further.

The Bare Leg Fashion

Sex and the City, Ally McBeal and Desperate Housewives launched the bare leg fashion around the world but it made no impact at all in Asia. How come?

Bare legs look awful compared to nylon-covered legs:

There is just no comparison.

Now predictably in the West,  fashion designers are into pantyhose again and they have regained popularity.

In Asia, pantyhose never went out of fashion…